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Dora's Hope
Dear Eileen,

First and foremost thank you for your interest in Dora's Hope. 
 

 
Joe Stango with his mother DoraOur Mission? Choice Centered Medicaid
 
The mission of Dora's Hope is simple: To no longer allow the government to  decide where Americans will live in order to receive Medicaid long-term care benefits.
 
Let's be clear: the issue is not nursing homes, the people who run nursing homes or the people who work in nursing homes.  Indeed, I have the highest respect and admiration for those who care for our loved ones.   

The issue is who will decide where you or your loved one will receive long-term care services...the government or you!
 
     Click on the picture of Joe and his mom Dora 
 
Health Care in exchange for our liberty and, indeed, our physical freedom, is not a solution to our nation's long term care problem.  It is the right of every American, not the government, to decide for themselves where they will live the remainder of their lives. 
 
Like many middle class Americans, my mother Dora spent her life enjoying the freedom given her by God and country.  Within the boundaries of freedom she chose to be a good citizen, a good mother and a good wife.  When it mattered most in her life we, as a society through our government's policy, took that freedom away from her forcing her to spend the last five years of her life in a nursing home and apart from her family. 
 
Recognizing her despair, I asked the Connecticut state legislature to pass a ground breaking program called "Money Follows the Person" (MFP) so I could bring her home.  This program allows the money to "follow" the patient giving residents of nursing homes the opportunity to spend their lives surrounded by their loved ones.  The state legislature voted unanimously for the program and the governor signed it into law.  All within 6 months.  However, while I won the battle I lost the war.  My mother passed away on December 17th 2007, almost a year and half before the first person came home under MFP.  
 
Since the program was started in January of 2009, hundreds of people have applied to go home.  In the state's own words they were "overwhelmed" at the response.
 
As well, the outpouring of public support throughout my efforts on behalf of my mother was heartwarming.  Since my journey began, 30,000 people - average citizens like you and me - have sent me letters of support.  Many of them told me their own stories of similar heartbreak.  It is because of these folks and those who continue to call and email me that I have continued my quixotic quest of this "Impossible Dream."
 
It is time for America to "honor" our mothers and fathers and restore to them, and the disabled of all ages, the right to "choose."  No one else need suffer the anguish of being forced to live apart from their loved ones or to never enjoy their own God-given right of freedom again.  We can fix the system through a national choice centered Medicaid program.  From Boise to Baton Rouge institutional bias in Medicaid exists throughout our country with the exception of a handful of states. 
 
How much does it cost?  The answer will shock you and put a smile on your face!  For some explanation click on the above picture of my mother and me.  It will bring you to a wonderfully balanced front page New York Times article that featured us.  
 
Next week I will send you more information that further analyzes the question of cost so that you can accurately and positively convey the information to your friends and family.  In the coming weeks, as well, I will share with you ideas of how you can help.  
 
 


 

As our new president has said time and time again, "we can change the world."  I agree!  However, when we change it we can not leave behind our seniors, our disabled of all ages, our aging veterans and policemen, all who serve our country and, indeed, all Americans who face the hopelessness of despair due to forced institutionalizatio n. 
 
Choice Centered Medicaid will allow families to do what they do best....Love and Care for each other. 
 
Thank you for your generosity of spirit and your commitment to hope. 
 
Sincerely,
 
Joe
 
Joseph J. Stango
 

Joe Stango
Dora's Hope

 
     
 
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